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Going On An Impossible 1,700 Mile Journey In Search Of Self

Why would a young, beautiful, and adorable woman embark on a 1,700 mile trek across the Australian desert? Tracks is a movie that challenges your personality and makes you ask; “how far can I go to achieve my dreams and discover self?” Many people walked through life trying to achieve certain goals but failed to do it because they got discouraged and gave up on the way. Tracks teach that realizing a dream is not easy, but if you are ready to take the pain, you will excel at the…

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The 25 Best Self Improvement Books To Read Before You Turn 25

I remember the first time I got my hands on a self-improvement book. I was baffled. At that moment I realized my fate was not set in stone. I could become my own drill master and coach. The books I read would set out the training course for me to overcome. All I had to do was listen to that voice that aspired to climb higher and higher. Every time I committed to a new challenge I knew it was going to be outside my comfort zone, but after enough iterations,…

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Self Awareness Is Underrated: Why the Conscious Mind Leads to Happiness

Whether your life is motoring along beautifully or you feel like you’re hitting one pot hole after another with constant grief and hardship, there are things you can do to have a better life. One of the things I think we’re seeing more and more is moving away from a desire for material riches, and a desire for freedom (emotional and physical.) And instead of seeking things, we are seeking feelings. We want to get away from pain and hurt, guilt and sadness, and want to experience more fulfilment, love and…

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To Live a Much More Fulfilling Life, Aim at Self Actualization

What makes it so difficult for people to accept who they really are? In a simple word, let me say pressure. There is so much pressure in this 21st Century of ours especially in today’s hyper-competitive and hyper-informed society for people to call themselves something they’re not. As Abraham Maslow highlighted, we all follow our own paths, it matters only how completely we dedicate ourselves to reaching the personal and psychological greatness that is placed at the top. For the top of the self-acceptance pyramid lies the concept of self-actualization….

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The Common Quality Successful People Have: High Self Awareness

Highly successful people in business and in other facets of their lives have many qualities. All of the qualities they possess, such as diligence, dedication, attention to detail, and many others mesh together to make an individual with a lot of potential. The most common characteristic that successful people [1] have is self-awareness. Self-awareness is having insight of one’s inner-most characteristics, such as beliefs, emotions, strengths, and weaknesses. Individuals who are self-aware not only have the ability perceive their own thoughts and feelings, but have the ability to “read” others and…

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If You Have Low Self Control, You’re Actually More Selfless in Relationships

The common belief is that a sustainable relationship requires both parties to be devoted to one another and willing to sacrifice for each other – which typically means having a strong level of self-control in order to make rational decisions that take into account both of your needs. Impulsivity, many believe, makes you a more selfish and uncaring partner, and is a bad trait for someone to have in a relationship. However, a recent study found that this common belief may not quite be accurate. Researchers from Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam…

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Don’t Focus on Happiness. Focus on Self Actualization

As a child, whenever anyone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I always replied, “The happiest person in the world.” Adults probably saw me as either someone starting too early on a path to self-actualization or as just a really strange kid. Most of us are in pursuit of happiness, yet most base happiness on conditions. For example, many envision they will be happy if they were wealthy. I have met some of the wealthiest people yet they suffered from depression, loneliness and anxiety. I…

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How to Develop Kids’ Self Control Without Scolding Them

If you were sitting in a room with a 5 layer chocolate cake and told not to touch it, could you resist the temptation? Would you sniff it? Maybe even skim some of the icing off with your finger? According to Laura Markham Ph.D. of Psychology Today[1], “Only 30% of 4 year olds can manage their emotions, anxiety and impulses to resist temptation.” Why should that matter? How you deal with self-control when you are four will determine whether or not the adult you can resist the urge to taste…

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A Letter To My 50-Year-Old Self: On Grace and Getting Older

Today, I turned a different age somewhere along the continuum of the roaring twenties. I don’t feel any older than I did yesterday and in some ways, I am quite humbled by the life I’ve been privileged to live with its many lessons and experiences, its mountaintops and valleys, and the trek in between the two. When I was 12, I didn’t exactly write a letter to myself, but I did write down all the things I wanted to do with my life. Looking back, I’ve done a good deal…

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