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How Discipline Makes Children More out of Control

A 7 year old boy was lost and never found in the woods of Nannae, Hokkaido in May of 2016. The bear infested area was scoured by local authorities, but heart-breakingly, the little boy never turned up. What was a 7 year old boy doing alone in the forest to begin with? According to his parents, little Yamato Tanooka was left there as a form of “punishment” for throwing stones at cars driving by. Shortly returning after the fact, they realized they had made a grim mistake. Their son was…

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If You Have Low Self Control, You’re Actually More Selfless in Relationships

The common belief is that a sustainable relationship requires both parties to be devoted to one another and willing to sacrifice for each other – which typically means having a strong level of self-control in order to make rational decisions that take into account both of your needs. Impulsivity, many believe, makes you a more selfish and uncaring partner, and is a bad trait for someone to have in a relationship. However, a recent study found that this common belief may not quite be accurate. Researchers from Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam…

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Letting Go Is Not Giving up, It’s Taking the First Step to Taking Back Control

Letting go can sometimes feel a lot like giving up. You may feel that you are betraying the part of yourself that believes you can still make things work. But by dragging out the inevitable until it’s tattered and torn, you are only betraying yourself. That’s why you need to love yourself more, put yourself first, cut your losses, and move on. Forgetting an ex is exactly like kicking an addiction. Turning your back on something that you still want can be one of the most emotionally exhausting endeavors that…

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How to Develop Kids’ Self Control Without Scolding Them

If you were sitting in a room with a 5 layer chocolate cake and told not to touch it, could you resist the temptation? Would you sniff it? Maybe even skim some of the icing off with your finger? According to Laura Markham Ph.D. of Psychology Today[1], “Only 30% of 4 year olds can manage their emotions, anxiety and impulses to resist temptation.” Why should that matter? How you deal with self-control when you are four will determine whether or not the adult you can resist the urge to taste…

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Check-in Day 3: Control My Temper Even Better

Progress Check-in Let’s have a quick check-in to make sure that you’re on track! You got the list of grunt work prepared. You wrote down how bad you look when losing temper. If your answer is yes to all, awesome! With all the recap of tips and additional advice to manage your emotion, you should be in good progress of controlling the temper. If you’ve been strictly following our advice, you should have experienced less (or even no longer experience) these symptoms: sweating racing heart fast breathing yelling anger You have…

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Here’s the future of augmented reality, according to indie science fiction film Creative Control

 The first generation of Google Glass may have fizzled out, but the idea of a headset that connects you to the online world is still kind of sexy (and maybe a little unsettling), as shown by this new clip from the upcoming film Creative Control. Directed by Benjamin Dickinson, Creative Control depicts the lives of New Yorkers “5 minutes in the future” and centers on a high-tech… Read More Gadgets – TechCrunch

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5 Ways to Get in Control of Your Finances

It’s easy to lose track of your finances, especially if you’re a busy person or if you’re not quite sure what you’re doing. However, personal finance is a major factor is securing a comfortable life for yourself. It’s important that you understand where your money is going and how it’s being saved. With the proper know-how and techniques, you can save the most efficiently. Money shouldn’t be a stressor for you. In fact, it can be quite interesting and a little fun to keep track of your income and expenses!…

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